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The Love Language of God


"The Love Language of God
 is the fullest treatise on the subject of love that I have ever observed. I believe it will become a recognized resource on the subject. " -Jack Taylor, Dimensions Ministries

Christianity is changing from being task-oriented "doing" to relationship-oriented "being"-becoming the equally yoked companion for the Son of God. A clear image of that loving relationship between Christ and His Bride, the Church, is presented in The Love Language of God for you-and all those who want a closer, more intimate relationship with the Savior. Don't let this intimate relationship with Jesus get lost in the everyday hubbub of life.

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Written by Dana Candler   
Thursday, 17 July 2008
When we have considered the fullness of what God would give the human heart in love, we ask the question, “How do we enter into this deep communion of giving and receiving love?” danacandler.jpgThe answer lies in communing prayer, which means to posture our hearts in a listening and beholding manner in order to hear and receive His Word. The Holy Spirit desires to ignite the Word deep within us in order for it to become alive on the inside and infuse our inner man with mighty love.
 
Every human heart was made for this communion. We are all called to a deep devotional prayer life where we position our hearts before the Word of God to behold and drink deeply. 
 
The unique way that God reveals Himself to each individual is precious and beautiful. Each person is uniquely loved by Jesus as a dwelling place like no other. He has delighted in our own specific creation and called it good. 
 
Unless we understand this beautiful manifestation of God individually cherishing us, we will consistently despair when He does not come to us in the same way He comes to another. 
 
A deep prayer life is living the greatest commandment which is to love the Lord with all our heart, soul, mind and strength. 
 
A deep prayer life is wrapped up in loving God fully, it has no limit. This is our primary calling; to live lives immersed in God. When human beings enter into this immersion, it is the ultimate artwork of God on the earth. It is the union of God and man.
 
Jesus answered and said to her, whoever drinks of this water will thirst again, but whoever drinks of the water that I shall give him will never thirst. But the water that I shall give him will become in him a fountain of water springing up into everlasting life. (John 4:13-14)
 
We are responsible to turn inwardly to behold and drink of the indwelling Spirit. 
 
Drinking of this eternal water on a regular basis changes our thirsts and cravings. We begin as the woman Jesus met at the well as a quenched, dry heart running after earthly pleasures, and are transformed to those satisfied in God alone.
 
The Holy Spirit releases His supernatural activity inside us. This is the part we cannot produce but only receive. It takes God to love God. He pours His love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit. This is the manifest embrace of God. This is the “superior pleasure” of the Gospel.
 
So how do we practically practice communing prayer? 
 
First, we find a consistent place of prayer where ourhearts are able to enter in peacefully. This will be different for different people.   
 
Next, we quiet our hearts. It is often good to begin with other forms of prayer, such as supplication or meditation. This helps the heart flow more easily into a time of communing prayer. 
 
Thirdly, we gently bring our hearts into a position of resting love before the Lord. We must not be concerned if we do not feel anything. Just come before Him ready to receive whatever He offers. 
 
Focus on the indwelling Spirit who lives within us. He is a living and active Person and not just a mere concept or vague Spirit. He is God living within us. We talk to Him inside our being by uttering simple biblical phrases out loud. We can do this silently or by speaking and singing. 
 
After we do this, we turn to Scripture, find our own phrases and speak them back to Him. For example: “Consuming Fire, seal me with love” (Song 8:6-7; Deut. 4:24) “River of Life, immerse me in Your presence.” (John 4:14; 7:38; Rev 22:1-4) As we begin to say these phrases, speaking quietly, still and slowly, they are like gentle winds fanning the flame within our being. After a few minutes, shorten the phrases (ex: only say “Consuming Love”).
 
As we continue, God will ignite His word and the whole phrase will begin to live in our being.
 
Another way to practice communing prayer is by contemplating encounters in the gospels. We take an account of Jesus in one of the Gospels and put ourselves in the story. Because Jesus is always the Word (John 1:1), these stories have an application which transcend their historical existence. In contemplating them, we find Jesus addressing us.
 
Practical Points: Do not be overly concerned with wandering thoughts. When we realize we have left our place of focusing on Jesus, gently return. 
 
Distractions are a normal part when engaging into this kind of prayer. Our minds are used to racing and emotions used to following. We must give ourselves much grace and when we realize we are distracted with other thoughts or emotions, we return to resting in God’s presence. 
 
Sometimes we fall asleep in our prayer times and that is okay. Do not feel condemned but simply return to the place of prayer after awakening.