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"The Love Language of God
 is the fullest treatise on the subject of love that I have ever observed. I believe it will become a recognized resource on the subject. " -Jack Taylor, Dimensions Ministries

Christianity is changing from being task-oriented "doing" to relationship-oriented "being"-becoming the equally yoked companion for the Son of God. A clear image of that loving relationship between Christ and His Bride, the Church, is presented in The Love Language of God for you-and all those who want a closer, more intimate relationship with the Savior. Don't let this intimate relationship with Jesus get lost in the everyday hubbub of life.

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Understanding and Desiring Fellowship PDF Print E-mail
Written by Dana Candler   
Thursday, 17 July 2008
“‘As the Father has loved Me, I also have loved you; abide in My love.... These things I have spoken to you, that My joy may remain in you, and that your joy may be full’” (Jn. 15:9-11). danacandler.jpgTo abide in love is to commune continually with the One we adore. Jesus invites each heart into this residency in divine affection with one of the most compelling confessions of His love ever communicated. He begins with expressing the worth of the love in which He invites us to abide within. This love that Jesus possesses for me and beckons me to continually immerse my heart in is only to be compared to the love that the Father possesses for Him. It is the same love. The way that the Father feels for the Son is the way that the Son feels for me!!! Unfathomable reward of the ages! It is in context to this description of His love that He beckons the heart, saying, “Stay here in My love, and do not depart from its embrace! Abide with Me in this love divine, and you shall know fullness of joy.”

Love is not love until it is expressed. Communion with God is the continual expression and experience of mutual affection between God and the human heart. It is the embrace of Jesus Christ and the kiss of His Word upon our hearts (Song Sol. 1:2). Communion is the exchange of love, with or without words. It is the presence of love that leads to greater presence and the fulfillment of desire that breaks open greater desire. Ah, the beauty of His nearness! The One who is fairer than all the sons of men with grace poured richly upon His lips—He is the one that pours the warm and fragrant oil of gladness into the deep of our hearts (Ps. 45:2, 7)!! Our every fountain is enveloped in His River of Pleasures, and our every consolation encompassed within Himself. He is the supreme delight of the ages. He is the glorious sweetness of all eternity. This is our Beloved. This is our Friend!

Surely anyone who has tasted of His goodness will give testimony to the ruining nature of its uniqueness. We are forever ruined for anything less and forever caught up in holy pursuit of more of Him when we have but tasted a morsel of His magnificence. David expressed invitation to the saints, “Oh, taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the man who trusts in Him! Oh, fear the Lord, you His saints! There is no want to those who fear Him” (Ps. 34:8-9). To describe the beauty and the wonder of this Beloved God, the psalmist declares, “I have seen the consummation of all perfection…” (Ps. 119:96). With the heart of one possessed and owned by love, Paul declared, “Yet indeed I also count all things loss for the excellence of the knowledge of Christ Jesus my Lord…” (Phil. 3:8). And Mary of Bethany spoke not with words but with action, pouring out her life inheritance over Jesus in one act of extravagant adoration. The fragrance that arose from that room forever and ever gives testimony to the beauty and the worth of the Man Christ Jesus (Mk. 14). If her devotion came with words she might have said, “Before me is the One who is worthy of the love of all creation, and God has graced me with one moment in time to ascribe to Him His worth.”

Every human being has within his soul this reach. And as we move deeper in the realm of intimacy, we have no option but to desire more and more of the eternal pleasure of knowing Him. We find that we cannot live unless we know and experience greater correspondence between God and our own soul. We long to be His friends and to share the secrets of His heart. We have known the ache of our own longing, but just as love is not love without this longing, love is not love without satisfaction. We must experience that which we have waited for. The feast of communion is our desire. For surely His love is better than wine (Song Sol. 1:2). It is better than the finest things of life, and our entire reward is wrapped up within it. When we have tasted of the drink found within the river of pleasures, we are abundantly satisfied with God’s fullness (Ps. 36:8). It is this that we are after, and it is for this that He has made us to receive.

We were made to know more than longing. We were made to taste. He designed us not just as those who would grow in capacity of hunger, becoming spacious hearts of desire. He has made us to receive and to experience love Himself. This is our glory. This is our crown. We were made for the fullness of joy. “‘These things I have spoken to you, that My joy may remain in you, and that your joy may be full’” (Jn. 15:11). We were made to fully enjoy our Beloved Jesus, to the fullness of our capacity. Communion with God therefore is more than the desire for Him; it is the enjoyment of Him. It is the present tense fellowship of superior delight.

We desire real experience in real time. We were designed by our Creator to crave His nearness and to only be satisfied in the true experience of love within us. For this reason, it is not wrong that we so cry out for His presence. It is not too much to ask that we might know Him as richly as we would dare dream about. Oh, how much greater are His own dreams for our hearts. God dreamed a dream of me in my creation, and that dream is larger than any lofty vision I have ever conceived of. Much has been said about the faithfulness of God to bring us into our purpose or our destiny. Yet the destiny God is most determined to answer is His purpose for each heart to know communion with His Son. He Himself will be faithful to bring each one into that place of divine love that He has purposed for their heart. “God is faithful, by whom you were called into the fellowship of His Son, Jesus Christ our Lord” (1 Cor. 1:9).