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What Exactly is the Bridal Paradigm? PDF Print E-mail
Written by Gary Weins   
Thursday, 17 July 2008
Over the past thirty years, the Holy Spirit has begun to stir the hearts of God’s people with a hunger for deeper relationship and intimacy with God. Beginning in the late 1970’s with an emphasis on the heart of God as our Father, the Holy Spirit began to emphasize the powerful and life-changing impact that people could have by encountering the affectionate emotions of God. garymariewiens.jpgThis move of the Spirit was released to fulfill the prophetic promise of Malachi 4:6, that at the end of the age a prophetic anointing would be released to “turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, and the hearts of the children to their fathers, lest (God) come and smite the land with a curse.” For these past several decades, the Body of Christ has grown deeper in the knowledge and experience of God as Father, and the benefit to the Church has been profound.

The purpose of this revelation of God as Father is to prepare the way for the coming of the Lord Jesus. That was the case at the first coming of Jesus, when the angel Gabriel prophesied this passage over John the Baptist at his birth (see Luke 1:17), and Jesus Himself said that John was the first fulfillment of that prophecy (see Matthew 11:7-15). The same will be true at the second coming of Jesus, as God raises up prophetic voices once again to declare intimacy with Him as our Father.

The second part of the message of John the Baptist was the experience of Jesus as the Bridegroom God. In John 3:29, John declares that as the friend of the Bridegroom, he stands and listens for the Bridegroom’s voice, so that his joy might be fulfilled. John is speaking here of a quality of interaction between the believer and the Holy Spirit that touches the human heart with the affections of Jesus as the Bridegroom of the Church. This spiritual interaction is so powerful that it brings fullness of joy to the heart of the worshipper.

We believe that in preparation for the second coming of Jesus, the Holy Spirit is raising up this message of intimacy with Jesus as the Bridegroom. Just as He did before the first coming, the Spirit of God is provoking an experiential understanding of God’s love that will draw us to the place of encounter in prayer, and will sustain us in the face of the many difficulties that will confront the Church at the end of the age.

The primary Biblical source of the language of intimacy is the Song of Solomon. While this book is a wonderful model of human romantic love, it is ultimately a picture of the relationship between Jesus and His Church. Many contemporary scholars disagree with this statement, but Jesus Himself declares that He is the subject of all Old Testament Scriptures (see John 5:39 and Luke 24:27). Further, in Ephesians 5:21 and following, Paul uses the relationship between Jesus and the Church as the basis for instruction in human marriage, and ultimately acknowledges that the focus of his teaching is not human marriage, but Jesus and the Church. So, if the Song of Solomon is about marriage, then it ultimately finds its fulfillment in the ultimate marriage, that of Christ and His Bride.

The intimate language of the Song of Solomon is not to be taken literally. It is obviously poetic, and can be understood if time is taken in meditation and study. One phrase that some consider to be controversial is the phrase “let Him kiss me with the kisses of His mouth.” Some suggest that we are trying to picture a physical kiss with Jesus. This is simply not true, and only the most irresponsible people would make that assertion without further exploration into our meaning.

This phrase refers to the experience of intimacy and even ecstasy with the Holy Spirit touches the human heart with the power and truth of God’s affections. Our faith was never intended to be merely intellectual. God’s command was never that we should understand God with our minds, but that we should love Him with all our hearts. Our faith is to be rooted in the experience of God’s love, and then our minds engage so that we have language that can explain the hope that is within us.

Another powerful passage that speaks of these things is found in Isaiah 62:5, where the prophet informs the nation that “as the bridegroom rejoices over the bride, so shall your God rejoice over you.” God’s emotions concerning His people are profoundly deep and powerful, and can legitimately be expressed in terms of human romance. The Bible does it, Jesus does it, Paul does it, and therefore we do it.

The Bridal Paradigm is simply a way of reading the Scriptures and interacting with God on the basis of His love for us as the Bridegroom of the Church. Our hope is that as you approach the Scriptures and your life of prayer from this perspective that you will experience more deeply the truth of God’s love for you. It is life-changing and profound, and it is His way.